Comments on: Orgasms and Megan https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128 A blog about a couple entering a 24.7 D/s relationship with pictures and stories daily about submission, dominance, and bdsm in general. Wed, 15 Jul 2009 12:14:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.3 By: Chantal https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11723 Chantal Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:37:51 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11723 Hehe, you are so cute. I can totally picture you jumping up and down while you wait for Megan to get out of the car. Hehe, you are so cute. I can totally picture you jumping up and down while you wait for Megan to get out of the car.

]]> By: Amy https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11686 Amy Sat, 11 Jul 2009 15:33:23 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11686 Natasha, I am very lucky; having friends who know your whole self makes being submissive so much easier. Remember that I met Megan and now Chantal online, my two best friends (not to mention Richard, my soulmate). Come visit us on Second Life! Jz, I laughed at the faking thing too! You have to admire true evil genius. Of course, I wouldn't have laughed if it had been Richard talking about it (he thought this was awesome too. :( ). Dvid, yes, I think you got it exactly right - "orgasms you control". Whether it's forcing orgasms or denying them, it is about control. Joe, yep, it's cruel. That's the point. :) Clearly Robert (and Megan) are getting more from her NOT having orgasms than if she had them. It wouldn't work for a lot of people, but it works beautifully for them. Jojo, omg you made me laugh out loud. You ARE devilish! Daddy...never mind. *zips her lip* xoAmy Natasha, I am very lucky; having friends who know your whole self makes being submissive so much easier. Remember that I met Megan and now Chantal online, my two best friends (not to mention Richard, my soulmate). Come visit us on Second Life!

Jz, I laughed at the faking thing too! You have to admire true evil genius. Of course, I wouldn’t have laughed if it had been Richard talking about it (he thought this was awesome too. :( ).

Dvid, yes, I think you got it exactly right - “orgasms you control”. Whether it’s forcing orgasms or denying them, it is about control.

Joe, yep, it’s cruel. That’s the point. :) Clearly Robert (and Megan) are getting more from her NOT having orgasms than if she had them. It wouldn’t work for a lot of people, but it works beautifully for them.

Jojo, omg you made me laugh out loud. You ARE devilish!

Daddy…never mind. *zips her lip*

xoAmy

]]> By: Richard https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11682 Richard Sat, 11 Jul 2009 14:08:13 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11682 I am amused to see everyone focusing on the tool, and not the result. Having or not having orgasms is irrelevant; it's the end result that matters. For Megan, it is working perfectly. She's happy, contented and visibly glowing with some indefinable rapture. It's interesting that her Master experimented with her, first making her cum often, then refining the use of this tool and discovering just what worked best for his girl. Who knew it would be no orgasms at all?! Well, seriously, orgasms aren't that big a deal. It's the fucking that is the fun part, where you get your intimacy. And I've often chosen in the past not to cum, because I enjoy the primal hunting edge it gives me in the rest of my life. Especially if I'm going to be doing any photography. Satiation can be a dulling tool. It's wonderfully cruel, and deliciously decadent - it's a thrill just top be in the presence of this exciting, sensual woman and know that she's very able, but forbidden, to cum. The ultimate sex toy, in so many ways. Both Megan and her Master have given up the pleasures around her orgasms. But he's exchanged them for something even better. I am amused to see everyone focusing on the tool, and not the result. Having or not having orgasms is irrelevant; it’s the end result that matters.

For Megan, it is working perfectly. She’s happy, contented and visibly glowing with some indefinable rapture. It’s interesting that her Master experimented with her, first making her cum often, then refining the use of this tool and discovering just what worked best for his girl.

Who knew it would be no orgasms at all?!

Well, seriously, orgasms aren’t that big a deal. It’s the fucking that is the fun part, where you get your intimacy. And I’ve often chosen in the past not to cum, because I enjoy the primal hunting edge it gives me in the rest of my life. Especially if I’m going to be doing any photography. Satiation can be a dulling tool.

It’s wonderfully cruel, and deliciously decadent - it’s a thrill just top be in the presence of this exciting, sensual woman and know that she’s very able, but forbidden, to cum. The ultimate sex toy, in so many ways.

Both Megan and her Master have given up the pleasures around her orgasms.

But he’s exchanged them for something even better.

]]> By: jojo https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11656 jojo Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:06:47 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11656 Hmmmm.... I am devilish enough myself to consider the idea of having real orgasms while pretending I am having fake orgasms. How will he ever know the difference? Hehe. Though I understand you submissive types probably can't fake "faking." To each his own... While I think the idea of orgasm denial is hot up to a point - I don't think I could last a year under these rules! Yikes! Hmmmm…. I am devilish enough myself to consider the idea of having real orgasms while pretending I am having fake orgasms. How will he ever know the difference? Hehe. Though I understand you submissive types probably can’t fake “faking.” To each his own… While I think the idea of orgasm denial is hot up to a point - I don’t think I could last a year under these rules! Yikes!

]]> By: Joe https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11646 Joe Fri, 10 Jul 2009 10:10:04 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11646 Jeez....this sounds more like SELF denial to me. Robert is denying himself that amazing feeling of his lady orgasming during love making. Why I wonder? Also, isnt it cruel to impose such restrictions on the one you love? Jeez….this sounds more like SELF denial to me.
Robert is denying himself that amazing feeling of his lady orgasming during love making.
Why I wonder?
Also, isnt it cruel to impose such restrictions on the one you love?

]]> By: Dvid https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11637 Dvid Fri, 10 Jul 2009 04:22:50 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11637 I cannot imagine not enjoying a womans'orgasm after a period of denial. Let alone denying one for a year and then asking her to fake them. There is nothing more satisfying than hearing and feeling her orgasms that you control. I cannot imagine not enjoying a womans’orgasm after a period of denial. Let alone denying one for a year and then asking her to fake them. There is nothing more satisfying than hearing and feeling her orgasms that you control.

]]> By: Jz https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11630 Jz Thu, 09 Jul 2009 23:18:40 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11630 While I *really* can't say I see myself getting behind the long-term denial thing, I howled at the making her fake orgasms thing. I'm afraid I know someone just that devious myself and I could just picture the intrigued look on his face... too funny! (But I won't be having him read this post, either! ;-) ) I look forward to the rest of the stories... While I *really* can’t say I see myself getting behind the long-term denial thing, I howled at the making her fake orgasms thing. I’m afraid I know someone just that devious myself and I could just picture the intrigued look on his face… too funny! (But I won’t be having him read this post, either! ;-) )

I look forward to the rest of the stories…

]]> By: Natasha A. https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11628 Natasha A. Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:45:36 +0000 https://247richardandamy.com/?p=128#comment-11628 Wow. I know I can go a while without orgasm, so Richard (my husband) is more focused on making me have them than denying them. It used to be nothing for me to go months without. Although we discovered that it greatly affects my mood. But I wonder... If I got over the moodyness, if I would be able to do that. *ponders* Anyways, I hope to one day find a friend like that. Right now I feel very alone in the world, not having someone, other than R, to talk to. You are a very lucky woman! Wow. I know I can go a while without orgasm, so Richard (my husband) is more focused on making me have them than denying them. It used to be nothing for me to go months without. Although we discovered that it greatly affects my mood. But I wonder… If I got over the moodyness, if I would be able to do that. *ponders*

Anyways, I hope to one day find a friend like that. Right now I feel very alone in the world, not having someone, other than R, to talk to.

You are a very lucky woman!

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