Pictures and stories from of a real life 24.7 D/s couple. Richard and Amy explore bdsm, daily life, and each other, from both sides of the relationship.

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October 17, 2007

Sterner Stuff

Filed under: Daily Life — Richard @ 10:43 pm

Amy’s Ass in White Panties

Amy’s ass, no doubt in need of a good sound over the knee spanking.


Amy tells me I’m changing, that I’m becoming sterner and stricter with her. I’m not really aware of this, until she points things out to me that she has observed. So much of this I just do, and then once it is done it’s out of mind, and then of course forgotten.


A couple of days ago, in a parking lot, Amy got a little sassy. She dodges away from me, hiding her ass and giggling, so I can’t spank her. I tell her to put both hands on a car, which she immediately does. Good girl. I give her a quick swat - the spanking isn’t the point here, it’s making her obey and take her discipline.

 Interestingly, I don’t feel any basic difference, but I do feel more interested in taking Amy in hand.  I don’t feel like I’m becoming more dominant, I feel more interested in keeping Amy aware of my ownership and control.

 It has become quite natural to take away certain  decisions from Amy that I wouldn’t have dreamed of taking a few months ago, but that is the way our relationship is evolving.  I don’t think I would have noticed it, except that Amy points it out.

 For example, I will make her sleep at the foot of the bed without giving it much thought, whereas a few months ago it felt unusual, and even edgy.  And yet it is now, that I’m more used to it, that it feels very sexy and satisfying to do it.  I smack her ass pretty much all day long, any time it is within reach, just to enjoy the feel of it, which wouldn’t have occurred to me a few months ago.

A natural evolution, it seems, and one that has gone almost unnoticed by me, but not, apparently, by Amy.


  1. No, leave that lovely ass alone!

    Comment by tom paine — October 18, 2007 @ 9:10 am

  2. I have just recently started reading your blog you are both a very interesting couple I think that your relationship is evolving beautifully.

    Comment by robert e jones — October 18, 2007 @ 9:37 am

  3. Personally I think Amy’s ass looks as though it could do with a nice stroking, but each to his own :)

    It’s fascinating reading about how your relationship progresses as a direct result of how you react to each other.

    Comment by Z — October 18, 2007 @ 8:27 pm

  4. You get to have that ass, indeed that whole body, the full Amy, in your bed and you choose to make her sleep at the foot of the bed?

    wanders away shaking head in disbelief.

    Comment by freddy — October 18, 2007 @ 10:45 pm

  5. LOL - I should be more explicit freddy. Not all of Amy is at the foot of the bed. Her head is at about my midsection, which allows her to rest while keeping her mouth quietly occupied.

    Comment by Richard — October 18, 2007 @ 11:49 pm

  6. Yes, spanking is good, it’s all good and I think she certainly DOES need a good sound one! Wouldn’t that lovely ass look so much prettier with a nice rosy hue on it?

    I love the evolution that is taking place, I especially love hearing about “sterner” things happening just because you are feeling it naturally. It’s such a “man” thing, I don’t know how to describe it except to again draw a parallel to an old-fashioned traditional relationsship. I find so many similarities between the 1950’s man/woman thing and D/s. There is something so attractive about a man who has no issues with knowing exactly what he wants and expects from his woman yet can still manage to be sweet and loving and cherish her as well, let alone respecting her intelligence but still being able to think of her as his little girl. Not sure if that makes sense but there it is! Amy, the nails are looking FABulous now that they’re a little longer, how is that going for you getting used to the longer length?

    Comment by jdsgirl — October 20, 2007 @ 5:54 am

  7. Hi amy and Richard,
    Just discovered that you moved you blog b/c of problems with blogger. I decided to move mine recently as well but haven’t been able to move over the archives. Were you successful with that and if so, how did you manage it? Thanks in advance!

    Comment by Autumn — October 20, 2007 @ 10:26 am

  8. Good day to both of you.
    I came across your blog completely by accident. I must say I find it very interesting. My sub [wife] and I are also in a 24/7 D/s relationship. At times I found myself at a loss how to control O/our lifestyle better and keep more control of it.I very much like your approach to the lifestyle, so much in fact that I have “borrowed” some of your methods. I too enjoy the CONTROL aspect of O/our life. W/we are a Canadian couple, located in British Columbia, and I look forward to reading more of your blog and enjoying the lifestyle. I hope you will continue to post here and you may have influenced me to start a blog of my own. If i may make a comment, Amy is lovely.

    Comment by LeatherIRC — October 20, 2007 @ 5:18 pm

  9. a practical question. the man who owns and loves me has an obsession with pink panties. especially frilly pink panties. i sent him a link to this posting and, as i expected, he said that these are JUST like the ones he had in mind…. i doubt they would look as good on my aging, spreading ass as on amy’s delicious one, but it’s worth a shot. can you tell us who makes them?

    (as for changes, i think they are inevitable in any vital relationship. inevitable, necessary, and enriching. thanks for sharing your story and your exquisite photographs.)

    Comment by oatmeal girl — October 21, 2007 @ 6:25 am

  10. jdsgirl, I have decided that you are to me as I am to Megan - you’re always coming up with lovely suggestions for me eg spankings, buttplugs, etc. *shakes fist* But I will forgive you because you complimented my fingernails lol. I am getting used to them, and I like how pretty they look. I hate having them done every three weeks; the women who do it are odd, it’s boring and I hate spending the money on myself. I’d rather spend it on Richard or the kids, or even the dogs. Re 50s relationships, I think we’re some kind of throwback, maybe the fifties but maybe like other animals (hence the last post, although it ended up going somewhere different than I expected; I’m going to try again soon).

    Autumn, I’ll let Richard answer your question. Did you get blocked like we did?

    LeatherIRC, it’s great to hear that another 24/7 couple is finding our blog helpful! Please let us know if you do start a blog. And thank you for the compliment. *curtsies*

    oatmeal girl, it’s amazing what a pair of pink panties does for your ass AND your self-esteem! I felt like such a cute, saucy thing wearing those! We got them at Hot Topic, although we couldn’t find a pink pair (that’s what I wanted too). Frederick’s also had some, but said they were running out a lot, so you might want to try them online rather than a store. So happy you are enjoying the blog!

    Comment by Amy — October 21, 2007 @ 8:42 am

  11. Amy’s exquisite ass would certainly hold my attention. All flavours of my attention, I suspect…


    Comment by Easily Aroused — October 23, 2007 @ 1:06 pm

  12. I don’t understand why it is a good thing to smack her ass “all day.” Aren’t there better, more intimate, more compelling ways to exert control, if that’s what you’re after?

    Comment by Allen — October 23, 2007 @ 7:14 pm

  13. ~~The “sterner” seems like a good place to be.
    (I love the image of Amy, running away, giggling!)

    ~~spanks* alplenty for her,
    Halloween Week!

    You two, let me add, are the sexiest couple in the blogs.

    “Variety is the spice of life.”

    Have fun!


    Comment by Will — October 24, 2007 @ 3:25 am

  14. Oh Amy girl, I don’t suggest anything that I haven’t experienced myself! I love spankings, except the rare punishment ones but even those are sort of a “bonding” experience because the tears are a release for me and a way to drop some of the few barriers I have left. We have or rather, JD has such a variety of ways to spank. Some are relaxing and some are powerful, there are different positions and some I’m tied down and some I’m not. But all are at his hand (and his other toys, but GOD do I hate that stick on that damn crop). Buttplugs are good, erotic, submissive, and added a dimension to lovemaking that I didn’t know existed before I met JD. I feel a kinship with you because you have given me so much to think about and helped me accept a deeper level of obedience and submission that I struggled with before so I would never, EVER suggest anything bad for you!

    Comment by jdsgirl — October 24, 2007 @ 9:10 pm

  15. Mr. Aroused: ooOOOoo flavours of attention - I like the sound of that!

    Allen: Welcome! Yes, he has all kinds of ways to exert control. But spanking is good too!

    Will: What a lovely compliment! And one back atcha: went to your site and really enjoyed it. Glad to have a spanking fan visit us!

    jdsgirl: *hugs* You are so wonderful. I was just teasing about your getting me into trouble. Honestly, the things you suggest always make me very squirmy. I just find it hard to admit that! And I also feel very connected to you - I think we have such similar concerns and issues.

    Comment by Amy — October 25, 2007 @ 7:31 pm

  16. I get the “squirmy” feeling myself and if anyone had told me a few years ago that I would be WILLING, let alone desiring any kind of ass play, I would have decked them! And it’s not like I can tell any of my friends “hey, I got the BEST spanking last night.” Squirmy is certainly the right word when around the vanillas in my life!

    Comment by jdsgirl — October 26, 2007 @ 5:40 am

  17. A “tramp stamp” would be lovely on that beautiful canvas….

    Comment by tom paine — October 31, 2007 @ 12:30 pm

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