Pictures and stories from of a real life 24.7 D/s couple. Richard and Amy explore bdsm, daily life, and each other, from both sides of the relationship.

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November 7, 2007

We’re still alive!

Filed under: Daily Life — Amy @ 8:36 pm


The reason we haven’t been posting is that I was very wicked a couple of weeks ago and Daddy punished me by taking away my typing privileges. Every night I have to sit naked at his feet with my hands chained together and a ballgag in my mouth, while he reads the newspaper or cruises the internet.

Not really.

The real reason we haven’t been posting is that Richard has brought another man into our relationship. He is a really special person and an incredible lover. But I have been feeling too confused to post about it, not to mention feeling worn out from being tortured and fucked by two demanding men.

OK, not that either.

The real reason we haven’t been posting is that every spare moment we are fucking like bunnies. Demonic bunnies. BDSM bunnies.

Well, that’s only partly true.

I have been in the midst of an extremely demanding time at work. Richard has been very supportive, but it has still been taxing. By the time I get home, I am a Bear of Very Little Brain. Richard doesn’t seem to mind this and in fact seems to get some perverse enjoyment out of me being ditzy; maybe I’m finally acting like the archetypal Dumb Blonde. He likes archetypes.

So I haven’t been capable of writing anything meaningful and Richard has been focused on getting me through this period while keeping his photography going. We are hoping things will slow down soon. In the meantime, rest assured that all is well (thanks everyone for your concern - it was very touching) and we are continuing to have a wild and wicked time.



  1. Good, I’m glad you’re both still alive and kicking! I can more than understand the Bear of Very Little Brain bit - I just wish I didn’t feel like that at work too. Sometimes the thought of composing something to be written for public consumption just seems far too difficult. You have been missed, though xxx

    Comment by Z — November 7, 2007 @ 9:31 pm

  2. Oh thank goodness. I know I’ve been somewhat of a lurker (other people’s comments always seem to cover whatever I would have said) but you two are my favorite bloggers and I’m glad to hear you will be back. And - I totally fell for your first 3 explanations - doh!

    Comment by Penny — November 7, 2007 @ 9:44 pm

  3. Oh Amy,
    Be careful what you wish (OOPS I MEANT write) about! Richard just might decide to take you seriously! I can see that he would enjoy making a pet out of you. He’s probably going to take some pictures of the ball gag very soon. And as for another man… Have you ever actually thought what it would feel like to be in between two men. I know that Richard might have thought about that for you!

    As usual you make me grin. Good luck with work. I too am running ragged. I know because it’s 11pm, I have work to do, I’m reading blogs and I have to be up by 5:15am…

    Comment by DevilblueDress — November 8, 2007 @ 12:02 am

  4. I like you and you like me??? http://www.iwebtool.com/shortcut/16897

    Comment by aaaaa — November 8, 2007 @ 12:29 am

  5. I like you and you like me??? http://www.iwebtool.com/shortcut/16897

    Comment by aaaaaaaaa — November 8, 2007 @ 12:30 am

  6. Missed you!

    Comment by sulpiciapast — November 8, 2007 @ 12:31 am

  7. Whew, I was disconcerted when I read about the other man coming into your relationship because I find your relationship SO loving that even with a BDSM slant, I still find the idea of 3rd parties a dangerous territory. I LIKE that you two are so deeply in love and involved and in tune with each other and yes, old-fashioned (there’s the 50’s/60’s reference again). I have always grappled with the idea that in the BDSM community, sharing just seems okay and I just don’t get it. I mean, Sir talked about it because he loves to watch my orgasms and his main thing right now is getting me to have that happen while he’s having me admit things are feeling good even though it’s embarrassing and I am struggling against the idea of feeling so slutty. I have just always worried about the macho part of any man that loves his woman seeing someone else touch her or god forbid, cause an orgasm that he didn’t have anything to do with!

    Nevertheless, the idea of being between 2 men is exciting and sort of dirty so of course that topic has come into our times together (him talking about it while in the middle of fun is pretty mind-blowing and leads to fabulous orgasms!).

    P.S. Any tips on how to get the right link for RSS feed on new comments? I keep putting what I think is the right link and it never works!

    Comment by jdslove — November 8, 2007 @ 10:02 am

  8. lol!! you really had me going! such a wicked girl!

    Comment by sjm — November 8, 2007 @ 2:56 pm

  9. I am glad you both are doing well. I hope that when the quiet time comes you both will sigh together relaxed and content once again.

    Richard does outstanding work with his photos (i think he’s got a fairly good subject too!) Too bad you both are WAY over there. I’d love to pay him to take some photos of myself and then myself with my small family for the holidays.

    Take good care, the both of you, and get some rest when it allows.


    Comment by Juli — November 8, 2007 @ 4:41 pm

  10. Don’t go giving Richard ideas now… or is that the idea? (grin)

    Glad to hear from you, was really beginning to wonder something was wrong!!



    Comment by Ofia — November 8, 2007 @ 5:25 pm

  11. Hey, I’m glad you two are all right! Radio silence was starting to worry me. 24/7 is one of my favorite blogs, you two are so sweet and the sex is SO HOT. *fans self*

    I also wanted to thank you for the comment over on Sugarmoon. There’s no practical way to describe the fangirl squee I made when I saw who it was from. You made a novice really happy, thank you!

    Comment by Sugar — November 8, 2007 @ 6:32 pm

  12. i wasn’t WORRIED exactly… but certainly disconcerted. and i must say i’m relieved that the bit about a second man isn’t true. from what you’ve been writing, it just didn’t make any sense for you guys. of course, i know no one ever writes about everything that’s going on. but still… anyway, good luck making it through the work wretchedness, and i look forward to hearing more when you get your brain back.

    Comment by oatmeal girl — November 8, 2007 @ 8:43 pm

  13. The first clue was ‘Daddy’. I actually stopped reading, went back to your previous post and saw that, yes, he was still Richard, before I continued with your very enjoyable post. Glad to hear you’re still alive and well.
    I think the quality that makes this one of the most real blogs to read is the sense of humor that infuses everything you do.

    Comment by janeway — November 9, 2007 @ 6:42 am

  14. Good to hear from you. Hope things let up soon at work. *muah*

    Comment by Bunny — November 9, 2007 @ 7:33 am

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