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March 1, 2008

Thoughts on “A Submissive’s Lament”

Filed under: D/s, Daily Life — Richard @ 7:20 pm


The need of a submissive to be reminded of her status is foreign to me. Not that she needs to be reminded, but that she needs to be reminded in a “new” way.

I didn’t think we had dropped anything out of our interaction, the same old protocols, such as they are, were still being followed and enforced. And yet, clearly, a need Amy has wasn’t being met.

I look to see what has changed, and the migraines have certainly interfered. When she’s sleeping, I hate to waken her for my own uses, because she’s at peace, and who knows what unintended misery I may awaken her to?

We have a weekend together without the kids, our first in a month. We’ll see how that goes.

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Filed under: Sugasm — Richard @ 10:14 am

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