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November 26, 2009

Nuanced Blowjob

Filed under: Daily Life — Richard @ 8:56 am


Amy says we already covered this topic in some other post, but I don’t remember so…..double post!

Amy and I were talking about her sexual talents.  Well, I was talking about them.  I started by commenting that she was a freak in bed.

Oh my.

You’d think I’d slandered the Queen.  She insisted that she was “NOT A FREAK IN BED.”  I pointed out the matter of biting, etc., and the conversation switched around a little and she pouted as she maintained that some of her best sexual talents are never used.

“You just face fuck me,” she grumbled.   “I never get to give a nuanced blowjob.”

True enough.  I’m not one to sit back passively while she does stuff - I like to do stuff.  To her.

I get bored even thinking about the traditional blowjob.  What am I gonna do, lay back and think about what color to paint the roof?  I much prefer to have her choking and gagging while I drive myself deeper into her throat.

Still, there are indeed other pleasures in life beyond the obvious, and I’m thinking about giving this nuanced blowjob a try.  Amy’s always been pretty confident of her oral skills, and I might learn to like it her way, who knows?   But it’s unlikely to be number one on the menu.

“And another thing,” said Amy.  “I’m really good at seduction, I can really seduce a guy when I want to.  But I don’t get to with you.  You’re always fucking me.”

Now, there are things I’m willing to explore, like forced masturbation, or orgasm denial for her, but fucking her less often just so she can seduce me?

I draw the line there.


  1. This kind of reminds me of the pointless nature of buying slinky lingerie to wear for BG - they’re gone within about 3.9 seconds after walking through the door. Nuanced fripperies don’t go over big, either.
    Anyhoo, sometimes we just want to show that we do have things of our own to bring to the table. Even if they’re not your favorites, why not at least give us a chance to try?
    (Perhaps if you think of it as a way to establish a baseline, you know, so you can compare and say, “Yep, I was right. My way IS the best.” ???)

    Comment by Jz — November 26, 2009 @ 4:14 pm

  2. Oh yes - plese give the poor girl a chance and let us know how it goes!

    Comment by jojo — November 27, 2009 @ 11:08 am

  3. i love this! i can totally relate to amy’s pouting. if i never got to give a “nuanced blowjob” again, i’d be a very sullen girl. i tend to think of “seduction” as a semi-dominant thing. i get to feel sexy, powerful, wanted. so i can see why you would draw the line there (although, for you it is about the “less fucking” part more than the dominance, right?)

    Comment by littlegirl — November 28, 2009 @ 12:14 pm

  4. There is nothing like getting a wonderful slow, enticing teasing blow-job. I have my sub constantly looking for that something new to add- She knows that I hate “more of the same” and that I assign her the task of surprising me with something new with the blow job- and she constantly comes up with something new. Try- a mouthful of ice during the fun………….
    We’d love to hear the post game analysis.

    Comment by charlie — November 29, 2009 @ 7:07 am

  5. Jz, My way is always the best, but it an be fun to indulge Amy. Now, of course, she’s got performance anxiety; I’m teasing her about giving me an upcoming “nuanced blowjob” and about how wonderful it’s gonna be, so, so much better than anything I’ve ever had.

    Poor girl. :)

    I’m having fun.

    (Amy less so.)

    Comment by Richard — November 29, 2009 @ 8:55 am

  6. Jojo, I have every intention of giving her a chance. Seriously, she’s done this before, the nuanced thing. She’s done the ice in the mouth, done it with a mouthful of champagne, etc, etc. She’s wonderfully inventive, and, yes, talented with her mouth and tongue (Srsly, the girl knows what she’s doing), it’s just that I tend to prefer struggling and choking to the serene enjoyment of an active mouth on my impudent bits when I’m interested in sex.

    Now, if I’m not interested in sex, that’s the time to let her get all nuanced on me. She’ll get a chance to at least start. But even then I fear it won’t last long. Because once I get interested, suddenly there’s all this hair pulling and thrusting and choking and stuff. My preferences, but hardly the stuff of nuance.

    Comment by Richard — November 29, 2009 @ 9:00 am

  7. littlegirl, it’s totally about the dominance. I’d rather not fuck Amy and dominate her, than not dominate her and fuck her. Sex is fun, but D/s sex is the only kind that really matters. Fortunately, I don’t make that choice. I get both.

    Amy just doesn’t realize how potent her seduction is. She takes off her top, and bam! Instant interest!

    She’s just not used to having a guy who gets seduced so quickly. Plus, once I’m seduced I tend to get active very quickly.

    Comment by Richard — November 29, 2009 @ 9:05 am

  8. Charlie - I’m much the same - I like to make things interesting - for myself, anyway. I never know exactly what I want to do until I start it, but I come up with something. Does tend to keep Amy a little surprised though, as my whims seem to always be something she wasn’t expecting.

    So I guess that’s interesting, in a way, for her.

    Maybe I’ll shock her and go for the long slow blowjob. I don’t know about a teasing blowjob though - it’s not in me to give her that much power! :)

    *sympathizes for an instant with Amy*


    *done with sympathy*

    I’ll explore it, the long slow blowjob - done it before of course, which is why I like it my way better - the hair grabbing, head forcing, the thrusting, the choking, drooling, tears and begging etc., but since Amy seems to want to have a chance to show her skills more often when she’s given a chance to think while she does it, why not?

    Although I’m not used to giving Amy a chance to think during sex.

    Comment by Richard — November 29, 2009 @ 9:13 am

  9. A Dom and his sub were checking into a hotel. While getting out of the cab, the Dom noticed his sub checking out the bellhop carrying their luggage. Of course she didn’t say anything and acted like she hadn’t noticed the fit, young bellhop.

    After checking in, on the way to their room in the elevator, the Dom asked his sub if she had been checking out the bellhop. Her first instinct was to deny it. Of course that was the wrong instinct and she immediately knew she’d be punished for lying. The Dom already had an appropriate punishment in mind.

    About 20 minutes later, there was a knock at the hotel door. The Dom opened it and his sub was standing there. She had a mouthful of cum. Proof of both her seduction and nuanced blowjob skills. Punishment complete.

    Comment by Andy — November 30, 2009 @ 10:12 pm

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